“Having my priorities in order has really helped me look better, fresher and more relaxed”
Maybe a quote from a TV star (Sex and the City) is not what you would expect to head a blog about priorities in work and business. However, it does highlight the fact that if you have your priorities in order, you can achieve great things and not be side-tracked by unimportant issues.
Let me give you an example. A friend of my daughters popped in recently for a quick catch up. I asked casually how things were going in first 12 months of her job. She started to complain that the new managing director (and this was a multinational company) had decreed that only white coffee cups were to be used and she wanted to use her Lord of the Rings coffee cup. Other people were complaining as well.
These types of decrees are not uncommon as shown by the linked article about the former managing director of BHP Billiton, the world’s largest mining company. He put out an edict about desk ‘etiquette’ that bordered on the neurotic, at a time when the company had both great opportunities and of course many problems. He subsequently left the company with very little to show for his tenure at the helm, in particular the missed opportunities.
Micro management is normally a red light that may indicate that management does not know how to prioritise; treats staff as unimportant, and is not up to the “real” job. I once worked for a manager who was obsessed with orderliness, where all prospective customers were placed in labelled manila folders and filed (and that’s where they stayed!) whilst he complained that I should not keep active files on the floor near my desk as it made my office untidy. Perhaps it did make my office untidy, it certainly did not stop my success in achieving sales. I can remember another good example from years ago. I was studying whilst working full time and thought it would be a good idea to give my then manager a draft of one of my one of my assignments (which was about the industry we work working in). He proceeded to mark the spelling and grammar (this was before Spellcheck)
…………..little wonder he was dismissed some years later.
So what would be your advice to my daughter’s friend?
Be defiant and show independence and continue to use her Lord of the Rings cup?
It’s all about priorities.
Is it important?
………possibly demotivating, irritating and annoying ‘yes’ but important ‘no’?
We asked her:
“Is this important to you doing your job to the best of your ability?”
“Then it’s not a high priority is it?”
As the link to blog below, the expression “when a dog is in the hunt, it has no time to search for fleas” has relevance.
Remember it is up to you get your priorities right………………..
If you do, life and work is far less complicated and you are more likely to be much happier and more successful.